Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What kind of issues do you support?

I work with clients experiencing stress, anxiety, and burnout at work, as well as those exploring their identity, sexuality, or relationships. I also support people navigating polyamory, kink, and other non-traditional relationship dynamics. Sessions focus on understanding your experiences, building confidence, and developing coping strategies, all in a safe, non-judgemental space.

Who can benefit from counselling with you?

Anyone feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or uncertain in work, relationships, or personal identity. This includes:

  • People experiencing work-related stress or burnout

  • LGBTQIA+ clients exploring gender, sexuality, or identity

  • Clients in polyamorous, kink, or non-traditional relationships

  • Anyone seeking to increase confidence, self-worth, and personal insight

What can I expect in a session?

Sessions are a safe, confidential space to explore your thoughts and feelings. We reflect on your experiences, discuss challenges, and identify ways to cope and build self-confidence. You can talk at your own pace, there’s no pressure to have all the answers or “fix” anything.

How long are sessions, and how often should I attend?

  • Sessions typically last 50 minutes

  • Frequency depends on your needs, weekly sessions are common, but some clients choose fortnightly.

  • We’ll discuss what works best for you when we meet

Do I need to be “out” or open about my identity to attend?

No. You can come as you are. Counselling is a space to explore your identity at your own pace, whether you’re out to everyone, some people, or nobody.

Do you provide online counselling?

Yes, sessions are securely online, making it easier to fit counselling into your schedule while maintaining privacy.

Is counselling confidential?

Absolutely. Everything shared in sessions is strictly confidential, except in rare situations where there is a risk of serious harm to yourself or others (standard practice in counselling).

I’m not sure if counselling is for me, what should I do?

It’s normal to feel uncertain. You might start with a single Get-to-Know-You session to see if it feels right. Many clients find that even short-term counselling can provide clarity, support, and relief.

How much does counselling cost?

  • Standard fee: £65 per session

  • Reduced rates: Limited availability for students or those on a low income (maximum of 12 concession-rate sessions per client) to ensure others can also access the service

  • Sessions are payable in advance by bank transfer, and payment is required at least 24 hours before your appointment to confirm the booking

What is your cancellation policy?

  • Cancellations made more than 24 hours in advance: no charge

  • Cancellations within 24 hours: full session fee applies

Is this a crisis service?

I am not a crisis service and I am unable to provide immediate or emergency mental health support outside of scheduled sessions.

If you feel at risk of harming yourself, someone else, or are in immediate danger, please seek urgent help using one of the services below.

Emergency

Call 999 or go to your nearest A&E department immediately if you are in immediate danger.

Urgent mental health help (NHS)

Call NHS 111 and select the mental health option (option 2 in England). This connects you to your local NHS urgent mental health team, who can assess your safety and arrange same-day support if needed.

24/7 emotional support

Samaritans: 116 123 (24/7) or email jo@samaritans.org
Shout: Text “Shout” to 85258 (free, confidential text support)
Papyrus HOPELINEUK: 0800 068 4141 (support for under 35s)
CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably): 0800 585 858

Additional support

National LGBT+ Helpline (Switchboard): 0800 0119 100 (10am–10pm)
Mind Infoline: 0300 123 3393 (information and signposting, weekdays 9am–6pm)

If you are unsure but feel you need urgent help, please still contact NHS 111. They will guide you to the appropriate local crisis service.

How do I book a session?

You can contact me via the website form or email. I’ll respond promptly to discuss availability, session format, and any questions before booking.